Sometimes, when things slow down a little and nothing urgently requires my attention, I marvel at how we got here, how the four-footed one joined our lives and fills each day with a sense of purpose and energy that wasn’t there before.
In those still moments, I can recall all the things we said we were going to do in the future, which has suddenly become the present. I mentally tick off the ones we’ve completed and consider where the other ones are feasible or if we even want them anymore.
Sometimes I consider how fortunate I am. But unfortunately, not everyone with a chronic illness finds unconditional love, a job that accommodates them, and finds their way forward.
I count many friends who’ve become single or deemed undatable due to health issues. Yet, I know others who struggle to manage their disease in conjunction with their employment status because bills need to be paid, and life goes on.
I’m blessed to find someone in my corner regardless of my health for the day, evening, or week. He is okay with last-minute changes or going to events solo. He doesn’t mind the tears, frustration, and missteps that are a part of living with lupus. He doesn’t care that our plans have changed or our future dreams are different now.