There was a time in my life when, if you asked me about joining you in spending some time looking at very old tombstones, my eyes would have about to pop out of my head. Not that they would ever really pop out, but you get the idea.
However, somewhere along the lines, I started visiting very old cemeteries. And a little while after that, I noticed that many of these gravestones were works of art in a way modern ones never can be. Most of the tombstones were hand carved with an intricate script. Some were shaped into the most delicate crosses or rounded arches.
I suspect that once upon a time, they were well tended to, these grave markers, but at family died off or moved away, they fell into a forgotten state. Time allowed moss and grass to grow thicker and deeper. Sometimes a shift here or there resulted in fallen markers, but their beauty remained.
In certain circles, some people are returning to cleaning these old markers, scrubbing them, weeding around them and ensuring the grass is kept back. But, unsurprisingly, in most cases, the folks doing the work aren’t kin to those resting by the markers but do it for other reasons. For example, a few years back, it was all the rage to take the ‘rubbings’ of these stones as a way to highlight artistry. So, naturally, for the rubbings to be their best, you needed to clean up the stones, which meant cleaning around them too.
I never did that. I just meandered into the cemeteries, marvelled at the time and love spent carving out the stones and pondered those who had come before me and what their lives may have been like.