Being exhausted is, well, exhausting at times. I know that sounds stupid, probably impossible to believe unless you’ve been so tired that your bones are weary beyond understanding.
If you have a chronic illness such as lupus, life can be very tiring. Part of the problem is that chronic conditions are often “invisible.” Due to the disease’s nature, many chronic condition patients will put forth extra energy to maintain the facade of normality. Frequently, this use of energy results in a lack of it for other things throughout the day.
So chronic illness patients end up working or going throughout their day with a deficit of energy, spending more than they have to pay, so they appear like everyone else.
After finishing your day, you collapse in bed. However, that does not mean your energy will return with rest. You see, if you dig a deep enough hole, it is impossible to get out on your own. You need help.
What type of help? The kind that lets you rest. This kind of help encourages and creates the ability to rest to start to amass energy again. It may be hard to accept this type of help. It may be frustrating to be relegated to rest. However, it permits you the chance to regain what you need to be a part of things again. The whole cycle is exhausting in its way.