I’m so tired, so very, very tired. Actually I’m exhausted, extremely exhausted and no amount of rest seems to help erase any of this tiredness. I could rest for a year and I fear I would still be tired.
This is part of my life with lupus, I know this. Just as I know resting is exceedingly important with lupus. The thing is, time is limited, there are only 24 hours in a day and what feels like a million things to do. Now I know, logically, not everything needs to get done, but emotionally I feel guilty if I don’t get everything done. I feel as if I am not pulling my own weight and leaving too much for others to do.
So I compensate, by cutting back on my resting until I can simply no longer ignore the need to rest. And the problem with this that I end up resting an entire weekend away just to be able to drag myself through my week-day obligations. You know what my weekends should consist of? Time with friends and family, not my pillow and sheets.
None of this is obviously new to me, and I’ve written about it before. But having just woken up from a nap (not something I normally do) I am reminded again that lupus, like many chronic illnesses has exhaustion as part of the issue in addition to being exhausted just dealing with the chronic illness. Please excuse me, but I’m so very tired and am going to settle down with a book and the four-footed one!