Someone Beloved knows from years ago was recently in the media discussing the importance of enjoying the little things in life while having gratitude for each moment. We didn’t catch the live segment but a friend from Beloved’s home sent him a link to the recorded discussion.
In between rain storms and my need to rest, Beloved decided to listen to the discussion. He wasn’t expecting anything ground breaking or such from it. He was just curious, idly so as he out it, because when he knew him, Beloved would not have suspected the boy to grow into a man discussion gratitude or appreciating the little things. In fact when Beloved knew him best, he was an angry young man who was at war with himself and the rest of the world.
Beloved was curious as to what would bring about such a change, what life experiences had provided him these lessons. It turns out a horrible car accident initiated the experiences which in turn taught the lessons.
A car accident which resulted in paralysis in basically the blink of an eye. He indicated in the discussion that a spinal injury can prevent the body from properly regulating temperature. He said a spinal injury can make you wish you could feel the rain against your legs when a summer squall suddenly popped up. Being paralysed and dependent upon others helped him to relearn that life is made up of moments of rainbows and gentle breezes, the trick is to enjoy it all as best as you can.
Beloved listened to the discussion a few times and noted whether you are in a wheelchair or suffering from a chronic invisible illness, you tend to savour the good moments more than others would. I suspect it is because you know the dark moments that others can never even fully dream of. And I know from my experience you don’t have the energy to keep fighting everyone and everything when you have to heal yourself.