I’ve a person in my life who will make amazing plans and then have something come up that gets in the way of those plans just about every time.
I understand that schedule changes, life happens, and things come up last minutes some times. But I don’t understand it happening every time.
Some times this person will say that s/he is going to call at a certain time and then when that times comes around the call doesn’t happen. Other times this person will say s/he is going to meet me somewhere and then changes the location or the time. Now and then s/he will stand me up.
I wouldn’t mind if it didn’t happen more times than not. There are times ive had to cancel due to health issues or something coming up last-minute so I really do understand when it happens now and then.
At first when this started happening on a regular basis, I was frustrated and hurt. It took me some time and struggles to reach the point where I just go about my business now and if what s/he plans comes to fruition that’s lively, and if not it isn’t a huge deal. It’s just the way this person is and I either accept the person as a whole or not at all. And I surely am far from perfect so I hope I am accepted as I am.